What I Mean When I Say “Trans Rights Are Human Rights,” and Other Things About Gender You Should…Trans rights are human rights.Mar 25, 2021A response icon1Mar 25, 2021A response icon1
Call For Submissions: Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 6 (2022), due October 31, 2020Editor: Sinclair Sexsmith Publisher: Cleis Press Deadline: October 31, 2020 (earlier encouraged) Payment: $50 and 1 copy of the book…Aug 4, 2020Aug 4, 2020
Resources About Chronic Pain & SexA friend of mine recently asked me if I had any resources for chronic pain and sexuality. I knew of a few off the top of my head, but I…Jan 20, 2020A response icon1Jan 20, 2020A response icon1
No, You Don’t “Get” Racism Because You Are Oppressed, TooGender discrimination and racial discrimination are not the same thing.Nov 27, 2019Nov 27, 2019
Five Essential Apps for Sex BloggersOver the 13 and a half years of blogging about sex (that’s right — since April 2006!), many folks ask me about the tools that I use. Here…Oct 31, 2019Oct 31, 2019
The Singular “They” Is Grammatically Correct, DammitI just read your identity pronoun piece on Medium and I would like to converse with you about a few questions I have.May 16, 2019A response icon3May 16, 2019A response icon3
Dear Cis People Who Put Your Pronouns On Your “Hello My Name Is” NametagsDear cis people who put your pronouns on your “hello my name is” nametags: Thank you.Apr 20, 2019A response icon122Apr 20, 2019A response icon122
We need the new butch.Female masculinity has been evolving and is more accepted than ever, but we still need more.May 8, 2018A response icon7May 8, 2018A response icon7
To All the Tops Who Are Afraid to Make a MoveHow to get the green light from a possible sexytimes friend and not be an assholeJul 2, 2014A response icon1Jul 2, 2014A response icon1
